tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-948989023630552062.post5560042370686068266..comments2023-06-19T06:49:22.187-04:00Comments on CHICKS ROCK!: Giving Up On Grudgeskristinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02428469769524564496noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-948989023630552062.post-23806785722254280162009-01-16T09:30:00.000-05:002009-01-16T09:30:00.000-05:00I agree, no one has been spared from holding a gru...I agree, no one has been spared from holding a grudge whether we know it or not. The important thing is to let go of it otherwise it will consume us. At times its difficult but in the end, its freeing and if nothing else, we learn something from it. We can use these kind of experiences to our advantage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-948989023630552062.post-90428937870572468632009-01-15T22:05:00.000-05:002009-01-15T22:05:00.000-05:00A grudge is defined as a persistent feeling of res...A grudge is defined as a persistent feeling of resentment against a person who has caused harm or upset. <BR/><BR/>Sounds like a grudge is a self-imposed unwillingness of letting go of feeling bad. We are all capable of grudges - I certainly have had my fair share of keeping and growing grudges. <BR/><BR/>I can swiftly say that I have a past of being a self-indulgent misery chick who loved to relish over the goriest of details of how I was harmed and disrespected. And because I have spent more years cultivating grudges than getting over them, to this day I pray that I watch myself for the tendency to hold resentment. <BR/><BR/>When I recently learned that we have the ability to stop viewing ourselves as victims, I believe that related to my letting go of grudges - simply because the grudge was a result of fear I would be hurt again.<BR/><BR/>Giving up on grudges will make you feel 100lbs lighter this new year - perhaps prioritizing getting head healthy first will lead the body to follow?!<BR/><BR/>Great New Years words, Pauline! Thanks!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com